He ventured to Melbourne which helped him in the context of his sexuality and it certainly did not hinder his prospects in the racing game, either.
“I was 18 years old and very confused about who I was so I needed to get away and experience it on my own,” Nick said.
“It definitely helped me a lot personally the time I had down there, on top of what I learnt from professionally.
“I made a lot of life-long friends down there and I did not come out as gay until I moved to Melbourne.
“You lose people along the way but you also gain more friends through the process than you ever thought and the more people you tell, the easier it got.
“We are getting to the stage now where in the world we people do not need to come out any more, as long as you are true to yourself – people do not care any more.”
Nick was finding himself as a person while in Victoria but he was also adding to his resume as a future thoroughbred trainer.
He worked under the guidance of another Queenslander who moved interstate in Peter Moody.
Nick cut his teeth around Clifford Park as a young fella working for stalwart trainers such as Michael Nolan, Kevin Kemp, Lipp as well as both Gollans.
He got his first job working in Nolan’s barn as a 13-year-old after school and on weekends.
After undertaking an extensive apprenticeship, Nick felt he was ready to train on his own two feet earlier in 2023 and started his first runner under his married name at Dalby in April.
“I just felt that I had learnt a lot from Rex in the two years I was there, that was the goal I set was two years and I achieved that,” the trainer said.
“There is no bad blood between Rex and I, we actually have a horse that we all have shares in.
“I felt like I was at the point where I wanted to have a crack on my own and you sort of get to the point where you either sink or swim.